Guest blogger: Teaching your child a second language


Guest blogger Tiziana Barrow is a mother of a very active 4 year old girl, wife to the “man in plaid pants”, living in DC.  Born and raised in Italy and has since lived in the UK, Holland and across the US.  Tiziana is a founder of “A Family Village”, where she and her team encourage families to find their family's match:  www.afamilyvillage.com 

Have you ever regretted not learning something when you had the chance? A second language… your grandmother’s recipes… a green thumb with plants?

I really want my little one to be able to converse and enjoy my side of the family, so she has to be bilingual. I left Italy in my late teens and my all family still lives in Italy and speaks only Italian.  

I wish that my husband would become fluent too.  There will a big wedding in September and my enjoyment and his is going to be heavily dependent on how much he can truly communicate with my dear cousins, aunts, uncles, brothers and parents.  

My hubby has taken a course, listened to CDs, has several grammar books; yet to learn a language you have to be fully immersed in it.  Immersion is what I did when I first moved to England. I am an experiential learner so I would seek out any opportunities to meet new native speakers and expose myself to the culture to speed my learning process.  

With my little one, I’ve tried the one hour of Italian a day, the cartoons, the singing – that works some. She is learning words and fully understanding the gist of most sentences, but she is not able to converse. Last year, after two weeks of being with my parents and me only speaking Italian, she was forming full sentences.   

So I am taking the plunge:  I am going to be consistent and only speak Italian to the pair of them.  It might take some time for them to understand everything, but with time and patience they will both get there.  Also, I’ve been seeking out Italian families with young bi-lingual children, hoping to offer them the full immersion experience once in a while.  

I would be delighted to hear any suggestions that have worked for you.

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Molto grazie, Tiziana!
 
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